well...I have to tell you the honest truth on this one...not that I've lied before on a post...but you deserve the truth. I've sat here for a long time thinking what will I write for this post. I think I should have gotten Marley over here and let her write this. Anyway, she isn't here so I will do the best that I can.
The reason I wanted to take Marley's pics was because a while back I heard through the grapevine that she had gotten a tattoo. I had seen a picture on her Myspace but didn't know the full story behind it. I knew in my heart I had to find out the reason why and what everything stood for. I saw Marley and got enough guts to ask her "could I photograph her?" She is only the second person I have asked if I could take their picture. Sometimes you just get a feeling, and boy, did I have a feeling that this would be special and it would take a while for me to get over it. I have thought about Marley every day since the shoot. I just want this post to be as special to her as it was for me taking her pictures.
The reason that she got the tattoo was because of her dad, Eric. In memory of him. You see, Eric passed away on July 24, 2007. (I have Mel's permission to tell you whatever I want about it but I have prayed and thought about what I would say about his passing and I have decided to keep my fingers from typing about it.) Really, IT'S all about the tattoo. So when I talked to Mel the other night she told me that Marley thought about this tattoo for months. She wanted to make sure that everything was perfect. I think she did a good job. It is awesome. With me talking to her...the tattoo fits her. Marley has this toughness about her...I have to say I love tough girls. I was raised to be one so I like hanging around other tough girls. I can't imagine the pain that she went through to get this tattoo, but I'm thinking for her dad she would endure any pain that she may have gone through just because he was so worth it. She also has a softness about her too. I can tell by the way Marley talks with (and to) Mel that she loves her mom with a passion. Also through all the tragedy of Eric's passing they still have laughter. Now, I know, there wasn't much laughter to begin with, but to be able to laugh now and LIVE life to the fullest, after all the sadness, says much for them.
Marley, (and Mel), you will never know how much you blessed my life. Both of your lives spoke volumes to me. This also was the best photo shoot I've had. It is hard for me to describe why, but I feel in my heart that I don't even have to try to explain it. I hope one day we can do it again. My calendar is always open for you...no matter what. Marley, I love ya!! You are special to me!!
Here's the explaination of the tattoo. Eric was a BIG fan of Willie Nelson...so 2 guitars for that. His surfboard is in the middle. He bought Marley a gold necklace that had a medallion on it. It's at the bottom of the tattoo along with Eric's date of birth and death. The musical notes and the words "every little thing is gonna be alright"...that's from a Bob Marley song and he used to sing it to Marley and Dustin, Marley's brother.
Thanks again Marley!!